Am I Still A Virgin?

I remember the first time I questioned my virginity. It was during a sleepover with my friends, and the topic of sex came up. As we giggled and whispered about our crushes, someone asked, 'Are you still a virgin?' I hesitated, unsure of how to answer. I had never had penetrative sex, but I had engaged in other sexual activities. Was I still a virgin? I felt a mix of confusion, shame, and curiosity. I didn't know who to ask or where to turn for answers. It wasn't until I stumbled upon an article by a renowned sex educator that I finally found clarity. The article explained that virginity is a social construct and that there is no universally agreed-upon definition. It emphasized that each person's experience with sex is unique and valid, regardless of whether it aligns with traditional notions of virginity. This revelation was a turning point for me. I realized that my worth and identity were not tied to my sexual history. I learned to embrace my experiences and define my sexuality on my own terms. I now understand that virginity is not a black-and-white concept but rather a spectrum of experiences. I am empowered to own my sexuality and confidently navigate conversations about my sexual history.