I Don't Know What To Do, I'm Considering Abortion...

Published by Mr. Norberto Fritsch IV on March 16, 2024

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A 23-year-old college student is facing an unplanned pregnancy and is torn between her personal beliefs, family expectations, and her own future, feeling overwhelmed and conflicted.

I never thought I would find myself in this situation. I'm a 23-year-old college student, and I just found out that I'm pregnant. I'm in a committed relationship with my boyfriend, but we're both still in school and not financially stable. I've always been pro-choice, but now that I'm facing an unplanned pregnancy, I'm feeling overwhelmed and conflicted. I know that having a child would change my life completely, and I'm not sure if I'm ready for that responsibility. On the other hand, I also feel guilty for even considering abortion. I come from a religious family, and I know that they would be devastated if they found out. I've been losing sleep and feeling incredibly anxious about what to do. I've been doing research online and talking to friends, but I still can't make a decision. I'm torn between my personal beliefs, my family's expectations, and my own future. I feel like I'm running out of time, and the pressure is unbearable. I just wish I had someone to talk to who could understand what I'm going through. I feel so alone and scared.
#6259 by Sophia Kohler
8 months ago

First of all, I want to say that it's completely normal to feel overwhelmed and conflicted in a situation like this. It's a big decision to make, and it's okay to take your time to process your feelings and thoughts.

It's important to remember that ultimately, the decision is yours to make. While it's natural to consider the expectations of your family and your own future, it's crucial to prioritize your own beliefs and well-being.

Consider seeking support from a trusted friend, family member, or counselor who can offer a non-judgmental ear and help you explore your options. You don't have to go through this alone, and having someone to talk to can make a world of difference.

Remember that whatever decision you make, it doesn't define you as a person. You are strong and capable, and you have the right to make choices that align with your values and goals.

Take your time, be gentle with yourself, and know that there are people who care about you and want to support you through this challenging time.

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#6757 by Burley Armstrong V
8 months ago

As a 23-year-old college student who has faced a similar situation, I can completely relate to the overwhelming and conflicted feelings you are experiencing. It can be incredibly difficult to navigate personal beliefs, family expectations, and your own future when faced with an unplanned pregnancy.

First and foremost, it's important to take a deep breath and remind yourself that you are not alone. There are many resources available to support you during this challenging time, including counseling services, pregnancy support groups, and healthcare professionals who can provide guidance and information about your options.

When I found myself in a similar situation, I sought out the advice of a trusted friend who had been through a similar experience. Talking to someone who had been in my shoes helped me gain perspective and make an informed decision that was right for me.

It's also important to remember that ultimately, the decision about what to do next is yours and yours alone. While it's natural to consider the expectations of your family and the impact on your future, it's crucial to prioritize your own well-being and make a decision that aligns with your values and goals.

Seeking support from those you trust, taking the time to explore your options, and making a decision that feels right for you can help alleviate some of the overwhelming feelings you may be experiencing. Remember, it's okay to feel conflicted, but know that you have the strength and resilience to navigate this challenging time.

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#11029 by Annalise
5 months ago

As a 23-year-old college student facing an unplanned pregnancy, I can only imagine the overwhelming feelings of conflict and confusion you must be experiencing. First and foremost, it's important to acknowledge that this is your decision to make, and no one else's. While family expectations and personal beliefs are significant factors to consider, ultimately, it's your future and well-being that should take precedence.

It's completely normal to feel torn between different aspects of your life, especially when facing such a life-altering decision. Take the time to reflect on what is truly important to you and what aligns with your values and aspirations. Seek guidance from a trusted friend, counselor, or healthcare professional who can provide you with non-judgmental support and information about your options.

Remember that there is no one-size-fits-all solution, and whatever choice you make, it's important to prioritize your physical and emotional health. It's okay to feel conflicted, but it's also okay to seek help in navigating through this challenging time. Your future is yours to shape, and you have the strength to make the decision that is best for you.

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